Knowing what I say BEFORE I say it and so I DONT naturally think about what I said after I say it (not self aware [state builder])
Age 1 was becoming congruent – largely inspired to be called into distinction as an Age by the “Post Trish but not done with her yet” period, which climaxed with an email (for me) and in person (for her).
Step 1 is now taking that congruence and using it to eliminate probably my largest curse – a field of thinking that was never developed, the unconscious competent think-in-a-strait-line ability that I'm yet to even be able to distinguish decently.
I use self awareness to fight off the douchbaggery that comes with always rolling forward, a combination of focus-switching that repeats itself habitually in social situations which makes me more insecure & negative or “no” (asshole / jerk / brown nose / etc).
Insecure because of the self awareness state... ('cuz it's natural? can't go offensive etc)
Negative because I don't know if what I'm about to say has
un-intended consequences.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and careful observation of the right data, can show me how to experience and develop the introverted-thinking I need to get rid of the Negative, and DYD has everything I need to get rid of the Insecurity.
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